One of the questions I’ve been asking myself over the past
few days is “Why am I getting my knickers in such a twist about the Mark
Driscoll thing?” I asked myself why I
bothered to blog about it, why read more about what he said, follow up things
on his website, feel upset etc. etc.
There are plenty of other people better equipped than me to comment,
other people more nearly affected by it than me. The chances of my life being seriously
impacted by anything Driscoll says are vanishingly small aren’t they? Aren’t they?
This is a bit of a perennial question for me: I do get
churned up about things that I perceive to be unjust. I get irritated by individual acts of
injustice in those around me: someone who speaks sharply to a young person in a
way they never would to an adult; someone who tells a slightly sexist or racist
joke without thinking about it; someone who behaves badly so that others feel
diminished. When I’ve talked about this
with trusted friends, they say “Just let it go.
Just because so-and-so has behaved badly doesn’t mean you should get all
stressed and anxious about it” or “It
isn’t your battle, if Sue feels bad about what Edith said, it’s up to her to
say so”. It’s a very real question as
well, because my response causes me a lot of stress, which some might argue is
unnecessary – you could even make a scriptural case for “tomorrow having enough
worries”.
I think there’s some wisdom in what people are saying that I
need to listen to carefully, but I also want to make a case for speaking
up. And explain myself a bit. The quote below comes from a letter Martin
Luther King wrote to the church leaders in Birmingham, Alabama. They had criticised him for getting involved
with non-violent direct action in a city they regarded as not his patch. His detailed and measured response contains
the following:
“All I'm saying is simply this, that
all life is interrelated, that somehow we're caught in an inescapable network
of mutuality tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly
affects all indirectly. For some strange reason, I can never be what I ought to
be until you are what you ought to be. You can never be what you ought to be
until I am what I ought to be. This is the interrelated structure of reality.”
This is referring to something the Old Testament calls “Shalom”, which is
usually translated as Peace, but which actually has a much wider and deeper
meaning. An important part of this
meaning is that peace, health, wholeness cannot happen to the individual alone,
but needs to be happening for all of us.
For me, this means that while one American Christian sister
feels unable to use gifts that God has given her because she is oppressed by those
around her, I cannot be all I can be, and neither can any of us. I know I can’t fix everything, and I know I
have a lot to learn about graciousness and love when speaking up, but keeping
silent isn’t always the same as keeping the peace. Jeremiah 6 addresses the oppressive practices
of Jerusalem and declares God’s wrath against it. Verse 14 says this: “They dress the wound of
my people as though it were not serious. 'Peace, peace,' they say, when there is no
peace.” Interestingly, the King James Version
refers not to “the wounds of my people” but to “the hurt of the daughter of my
people”.
It wasn’t comfortable being an Old Testament prophet, and
Jesus made himself extremely unpopular when he spoke up, but if God has put some
Holy Discontent within me, keeping silent isn’t an option.
I bought a poster in Oxfam in the 1980s with this on- I was reminded of it as I read your blog
ReplyDeleteSay No to Peace
Say 'no' to peace
If what they mean by peace
Is the quiet misery of hunger
The frozen stillness of fear
The silence of broken spirits
The unborn hopes of the oppressed
Tell them that peace
Is the shouting of children at play
The babble of tongues set free
The thunder of dancing feet
And a father's voice singing